So, for those definitely not resolving - or maybe those who have resolved to make their resolutions stick, this blog is for you. Over the next three weeks, I will outline 12 areas of life that are ripe for quality decision-making - and which if you don't employ some basic daily disciplines you would be among the February 15th gym dropouts. Failure doesn't help motivate discipline for success the next time. I will break these areas down into four general categories over the next three blogs. I'll also share some high points in each. For more in-depth reading on this topic, get John Maxwell's Today Matters. It is the inspiration for this series.
Decision #1: Attitude
Did you know your attitude at any point in time is a choice? Well, it is. You can choose to be crabby, happy, joyful, manipulative, pouty, etc. You wake up in the morning and set the tone for your own day. So, accept responsibility for yourself, your attitude and your circumstances and you'll be much happier, even if the circumstances look bleak. It is not our circumstances that determine our life, but rather our response to them. Even a successful person might not be happy if their attitude is stinky.
Decision #2: Priorities
Your calendar will fill up. The decision about what fills your calendar can be yours, or your can give that to other people or situations. Set priorities daily, weekly and monthly for what needs to happen. If you struggle with this (or even if you just want to gain effectiveness), set aside one day a month to plan out the next month's days. Even if you only do this for your household, I promise you it will be well worth it. Those honey-do projects will begin to evaporate with a little planning and solid execution!
Decision #3: Health
Good health gives you the strength to do well in every other area of life. Neglect your health and it will become a ticking time bomb for you. Eat right (not perfect), exercise, get rest and recognize when your body needs a timeout and you'll be much happier.
Decision #4: Family
Whether you were blessed with a great family or you are now trying to escape your family roots, our family connections are vital. Family determines the way we see the world, how we approach problems, and later, how we raise our own children. If you have a family of your own, time spent with your family is the best investment in their future. You'll be happier as a person too. So, find that work-life balance. If you don't have a family, quality friendships are crucial to mental well-being. Humans are relational beings, we need each other.
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